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10. Every normal person should know which way the toilet
paper goes...
If she's picking silly fights, or there's an unusual increase
in emotional distance, you've got bad news.
According to Melvyn Frumkes, an attorney specializing in divorce,
"a person who picks nonsensical arguments is trying to get the
other person (you) to make the first move."
11. He keeps you waiting. And waiting. And waiting.
"Time is an important non-verbal communicator," says Wood.
If he keeps you waiting, it's a sign his interest is waning,
and a sign of disrespect.
This is true for dates as well. If he starts waiting until
the very last minute to make date plans with you, it's likely
he's lost interest, or he's hoping something better will come
along and he's using you as a back-up.
12. She buys a personal pager, or a pre-paid cell phone.
This is bad news. Just about every private
investigator in the book will tell you the pager purchase
is a sign of impending heartbreak. Sure, it could be for
work, but more likely, she's using it to get a head start
on her post-you life. Beep Beep - Bye Bye.
13. He used to be a three-blue-shirts-and-four-pair-of-Chinos
kind of guy, and suddenly he's obsessed with Armani.
According to Attorney Mel Frumkes, a person who is
about to leave (or is cheating) will take greater care with
his appearance - updating his wardrobe, losing weight,
working out and even changing cologne. If your sweetie
looks like he just finished taping an episode of "A Makeover
Story" - Those Chinos might not be the only dud he's
looking to lose.
Want to know when you're most likely to get the axe? Most
experts agree it's somewhere in the neighborhood of the first
3-5 months. So, stock up on tissues and Ben & Jerry's if you're
heading into the danger zone.
Only time (and his shoes) will tell.
Lisa Daily is the author of Stop Getting Dumped! www.stopgettingdumped.com
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