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Getting Him to Notice You
by Lauren Thompson
Well, it's finally summer and we are all looking for a summer love
interest right? Now all you need to know is how to get him to notice you
and then it's smooth sailing from there!
60% of you guys said that
personality is what makes a person most attractive, so put your best face
forward and go out there and get him. But sometimes it can be a little
more difficult than that and the game of dating can get confusing. Only
21% of you said that looks is what makes a person most attractive, but we
are not saying throw on some sweats and go get him. This process can take
time, and if you are sure he may be "The One" you have to plan
strategically! Where you go, what you wear and how you act all contribute
to the process of reeling in your catch. Some quick and easy ways to get
him to notice you are listed right here for you...
Change your hair, while most guys are famous for NOT noticing hair cuts,
sometimes a new "do" can strike up a conversation with your crush. Don't
do anything drastic, like pink streaks, but a cute new "do" may catch his
eye.
Try to cross paths with him as much as possible, find out what bars
he goes to, where he works, or maybe even where he works out! But what's
important here is that you don't want him to think you are stalker, so act
nonchalant. Make it look like an accident when you run into him and try
to compose yourself and not throw yourself at him. Seeing someone's face
continuously can trigger interest, so passing him in the halls may get you
to your goal and if you pass each other everyday it is a must that someone
say hello first.
Next, if still on the quest for love, try asking the
time, yea, its lame, but hey, it makes you look like you are busy and have
somewhere to go, right? There is no need to throw yourself at him, just
act natural and confident. Try wearing something fun, if he is an office
crush; spice up your work attire. Bright colors are great and especially
since it is summer.
Another tip if your crush is in the office, try to
jump on the elevator with him, just the two of you in a confined place
could get steamy and someone is bound to strike up a conversation. Let
him catch you flirting with other guys, show him that you are quite the
catch and have other prospects out there. One of the "queens of dating"
in my book says that "All I do is pretend I am Samantha from Sex and
The City, confident, bold and willing to try anything, and it always
seems to work! I approach him and introduce myself, bat my eyelashes,
toss my hair and move in for the kill," Jill Miller, a college student
said.
Well, see girls, it's all in how you carry yourself. Having good posture
is a must. Standing up
straight gives the impression that you are intelligent and confident.
Always remember to have your nails painted nicely or not painted at all,
if you are meeting your crush for the first time you don't want to shake
him hands and for him to see your chipped nails or hang nails!
Eye contact is also part of the meeting frenzy. If you make eye contact with
him every once in a while and then look away, it should hopefully trigger
him into coming and introducing himself! However, do not stare him down,
that can get a little creepy. Look at him and then slowly and carefully
look away. It will make him see that you are scanning the place and
haven't landed on him yet. Have fun at the game of dating, because it is
just a game! But with dating it is more fun to win than lose, right!?
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