Q: I have caught my wife cheating several times but I love her, what do I do?
I wish I had all the right answers for you. One thing I will tell you is to take a day off and really evaluate your situation. Love will make you do crazy things so you really have to take your time.
Do you really love her? Or are you just really comfortable. Look at how your life is affected every day by the distraction. Is this what you want? You really have to ask yourself these questions.
You just don't want to wake up in five years and the same thing be happening. Both of you have to be willing to go for the long haul, otherwise you'll be miserable with no way out. That means honesty no holes bared, not even a little white lie, it's unacceptable. It's not for you to worry about monitoring her, but for her to be honest with herself and if she can't stay honest she needs to get out.
Your situation is a tough one, do you marry her for better or worse through sickness and in health. Maybe the both of you should really take a strong look at that, "for better or worse through sickness and in health".
I know you will make the right dission just commit to it.
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