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Every successful masturbation session begins with an erection-- when your penis
fills with blood to the point that it becomes larger and firm to the touch, usually sticking
straight out from your body or angled upward as you stand.
Once your penis has reached its full length and hardness, take a hold of it and rub
it lengthwise at a consistent rate. It will also allow you to concentrate on the good
feelings masturbation produces, so you can refine your technique for maximum pleasure.
Some guys like to masturbate with lubrication between their hand and penis, while
others don't. If you're uncircumcised, you have some extra skin on your penis to
move up and down along the shaft, and you can simply grab on firmly and pump away,
rolling the sleeve of skin that covers your penis back and forth over the shaft.
This will cause your foreskin to move back and forth across the head of your penis,
producing a great feeling. However, even some uncircumcised guys prefer the feeling
of a little lubrication between the head of the penis and the foreskin.
One common form of lubrication is spit, but you'll have to use a lot of it if you
want really good lubrication, and some people just don't produce that much saliva.
Another method is to masturbate in the shower or bathtub with soap or shampoo.
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We do not recommend using soap or shampoo as a lube as it can sting if it gets
into the hole (the urethral opening) at the end of your penis. |
Petroleum jelly also works,
but it's greasy and tough to cleanup; plus, since it's so thick, Vaseline may not
allow your hand to move as fast as you want. Baby oil works, but it is messy to
clean up and leaves stains. Hand lotion is popular and works well; it cleans up
fairly easily, is slippery, lasts long, and lets you go as fast as you want.
There's a whole industry of water-based "personal lubricants," some of which can
be found in drugstores or supermarkets. These usually look like a tube of toothpaste,
(such as K-Y Jelly) - although liquid versions, such as Astroglide, are also
becoming popular.
As you masturbate, the feelings of pleasure will start to intensify. If you
want to get the most from your session, don't let things happen too fast. To
prolong the pleasure, you might want to stop for a minute to give your penis
(and arm) a rest. Besides being fun, this is actually a very good exercise for later:
you will be a better sex partner if you can delay your ejaculation to maximize your
partner's pleasure, and time it so you reach orgasm at the right moment. Keep
squeezing and stroking, and savor the feelings. If the pleasure starts to get a
little too intense, slow down or weaken your grip rather than stop.
When you reach the point just before ejaculation, it might feel like you're at
the top of the hill at the beginning of a roller coaster. The muscles in your
body will start to stiffen up, and a series of waves of muscle contractions
will take over inside your pelvis. At the same time, it might feel like a lightning
bolt is going through your brain, every nerve in your body tingling, alive with
energy. You may even cry out or moan involuntarily. A teaspoon or two of
semen may
come out of your penis. It may just dribble out, or it may shoot out with force,
flying a foot or two through the air. After 5-10 seconds the semen will stop coming
out, and you'll lie there breathing very heavily with your heart pounding.
If you're lying there with wet semen on your stomach, you'll probably want to clean
it up fairly soon - especially if there's any chance someone will walk in on you.
Just wipe it up with a Kleenex; it's a lot easier to flush a tissue, than to use a
towel or T-shirt, which you'll have to wash.
After a male ejaculates, he usually loses his erection and goes through a period of
time when he isn't interested in getting aroused again; actually, he may be unable to
get an erection during this time.
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