| 1. | Let sex simmer on low instead of expecting an immediate boil. |
| 2. | Reject the activity not the person. |
| 3. | Differentiate between demand and invitation. |
| 4. | Communicate clearly. |
| 5. | Employ the art of compromise. |
| 6. | Don't approach lovemaking as it having to follow the numbers. |
| 7. | Convey not now, but definitely later. |
| 8. | Expand your sexual repetoire. |
| 9. | Use fantasies to turn up the heat. |
| 10. | Identify obstacles and come up with practical ways to deal. |
