5. He says, "I need some space" or "I think we should
see other people."
According to psychologist Jesse Rabinowitz, Ph.D, people don't
usually want to hurt someone else, so they use "exit strategies."
By telling you he wants to see other people, he's not
technically breaking up with you (so no big crying scene to
endure) but he's given himself a way out. Of course, the
second he gets a little distance, he's going to make a
run for it.
6. If she's looking left, something's not right.
According to Bill Raduenz, private investigator, a person
who looks up into the air and to the left when she speaks
to you is "not being truthful."
The look left is an indication we're using the "creative"
side of our brains and a good indicator she's telling you
7. He gives you that little pat on the back.
Watch out for this one. A person who gives you a hug
while patting you on the back is indicating that they are
uneasy. According to Raduenz, the "hand pat" on the
back indicates someone is uncomfortable with what they're
doing. The bigger the pat, the more discomfort they feel.
Another important sign that things may not be going well
is the amount of contact during a hug. Full frontal
contact is good. The one-shoulder hug, or pulling away
in other areas could be a sign the person is "distancing"
in the relationship. If it's a new relationship,
the other person may not be quite ready for that level
of physical contact. If it's an established relationship,
it could be a sign the person is pulling away, or getting
ready to break off the relationship.
8. You don't like what you see in the mirror.
People mirror each other's body language when they are in
love with similar gestures, voice volume, etc. If you're
noticing the two of you are out of sync, you probably are.
That's not all. According to body language expert Wood,
a person who is about to dump you will display a
lack of open "windows" towards you. "Windows" being
his heart, eyes, neck and palms. If your
man turns his heart (the center of his chest) away from you
as you are talking to each other, it's a big sign he's not
9. You see the writing on the wall.
According to graphologist Karen Weinberg, QDE, a person
who is thinking of ending a relationship will show clues
in her handwriting. When writing the word "love" she may
begin to drop down the letter "e." Another sign to watch
for is if your partner diminishes the size of your
name (sign of your importance to her.)
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